I specialise in the area of sexuality and its impact on relationships.
Not surprisingly sex is a major aspect of most relationship breakdowns. Sex coaching comes from a positive approach through solving problems by fulfilling potential. Most people are motivated to seek help by a problem but their real happiness lies in fulfilling their potential. I use knowledge and skills in sex and relationships to help you travel towards your goals and fulfil your dreams.
For Many Couples
You are probably frustrated that you can’t quite get past some blockage or beyond some past baggage. It may be that you feel there’s got to be more to sex than the routine that you’ve fallen into. Have you always done what was expected of you and now you want to do something for yourself… find your own voice? A greater freedom in sexuality seems to be the journey that many couples and individuals are making these days. I can help to guide you along this pathway.
Difference in libido is a common issue for many couples. It can lead to breakdown or the silence of a sexless marriage. If sex has let you down in the past or is threatening to do so with the passing years you may want help to process these challenges. I can help from personal experience and knowledge.
‘The empty nest’ is like a bereavement and can bring on an unexpected crisis as you experience personal loss and context. The challenge is take the opportunity for ‘me’ time and concentrate on what ‘I’ really want in life. I can empathise with this sense of loss and help you to find renewed purpose and meaning.
For Women in particular
The most common issues that affect women are basically to do with desire and orgasm – often a lack of both. Many of us come with baggage from our childhoods and need to find a new permission to be free and expressive. Today’s culture doesn’t encourage self-acceptance. It is easy to have a negative body image no matter what your body type. All of this subtle negativity leads to inhibitions and a lack of confidence that can make socialising a challenge and dating a nightmare. It becomes just too difficult to reach out. Negative life experiences can also cause our bodies to react defensively and to make sex painful and sometimes even impossible. I can help with all of these issues and if there has been profound trauma refer on, if necessary.
For Men in particular
Men are also suffering from issues about desire and orgasm. Pornography has promoted the idea of sex as a performance. This tends to push out the emotional component that makes it deeply satisfying. Performance anxiety can lead to erectile dysfunction or early ejaculation (or even delayed ejaculation). For some men body image issues can contribute to sexual inhibitions. These show up as a lack of confidence and clumsy dating skills. So much of it is in the mind but the final proof is in the experience.
When you come to me we will address all the medical aspects first. We will then discuss how you can move past whatever is holding you back. My aim is to help you find the place of your sexual integrity so why not call me on 07933 709169 or email me here?